You Would Be Pretty If…

Y’all remember AIM, right? Remember running home after school to use the computer to talk to them all night. Oh, just me? Well, that was my life. But sometimes those conversations went left for me.One night I was on AIM with my high school crush. We were chatting casually, but of course, I thought itContinue reading “You Would Be Pretty If…”

In a Falsetto Playlist

There’s something about a man singing in a Falsetto! It is a full-on vibe. It does something to your soul and makes you feel beautiful. I like to listen to these songs when I am trying to unwind for the day or trying to get romantic. You do not need to be with a partnerContinue reading “In a Falsetto Playlist”

Smile & Shine Playlist

You wake up feeling good. You’re lounging around the house in your favorite sweats, and you’re enjoying the true essence of being alone. Or you could be cleaning your home and need something to bop to. This playlist is called Smile & Shine because it puts you in the zone of peace and happiness. ItContinue reading “Smile & Shine Playlist”

The Game Chose Me

At 3 years old, no one ever says I want to be a Higher Ed professional when I grow up. Because honestly, how many people actually know what that is right now. Trust me, not a lot, because people never really understand what I do even after telling them. But how did I get anContinue reading “The Game Chose Me”

Movies with a Dash of Racism

My best friend & I love going to the movies together. From elementary through high school, we would have a ritual to see great movies together. But who would know this trip to AMC was about to change our perspective on racism and prejudice?  It was junior year of high school me and my bestContinue reading “Movies with a Dash of Racism”

They: “You Need to Set Boundaries”

They: “You need to set boundaries.” Me: “I’ll do that now.” They: “But first, can you help me move this mountain.” Me: “Yea, sure, hold on.” Setting boundaries are easier said than done, and trust me, it’s something I am still working on. From the demands of family, friends, relationships, groups, and work; it canContinue reading “They: “You Need to Set Boundaries””